Interview with Dating Headhunter Emma Gunnell

Matchmaker Interview with Dating Headhunter Emma Gunnell

 

Emma Gunnell is the owner and head matchmaker of the Emma Gunnell Matchmaking Agency.

Why Did You Decide To Become A Matchmaker?

 

By sheer happenstance! My lovely friend and neighbour, Sacha, introduced me to the world of matchmaking through a dating agency that she worked at, near to where we lived. I began as a dating headhunter, a role I still relish alongside matchmaking. Helping individuals find meaningful, lasting relationships is incredibly fulfilling – it’s a nice feeling knowing that I’m making a real difference in people’s lives.

 

What Makes You Different To Other Companies/Matchmakers?

 

Probably my networking skills and bespoke approach, tailored to each client’s unique needs and preferences. I don’t operate within an agency environment. Instead, clients liaise exclusively with me only, throughout their dating journey. I limit my client intake to a select few, so that I can guarantee the attention and service clients deserve as we navigate the dating landscape together. Think of me as your ultimate wing woman, guiding you every step of the way

 

What Do You Like Most (And Least) About Being A Matchmaker?

 

The best part of being a matchmaker is witnessing the joy and happiness when two people find a meaningful connection. It’s incredibly rewarding to know I’ve played a role in someone’s journey to love. The least enjoyable aspect is the occasional heartbreak clients experience, but even then, it’s an opportunity to provide support and guidance

 

Do You Think The Way Matchmakers Are Viewed In The UK Is Changing?

 

Absolutely. The perception of matchmakers in the UK is evolving. More people are now recognising the value of personalised, professional matchmaking services, especially in a world where online and app dating can be overwhelming and time-consuming. A matchmaker takes all of that pain away, providing a tailored, supportive experience

 

Do You Have Any Funny Or Interesting Dating Stories?

 

Of course! One memorable story involves a female client in her late 70s. I introduced her to a widower in his mid-80s, who I acted as a Dating Headhunter for her, who had cared for his wife for many years before she sadly passed away. They hit it off instantly and are now happily married. This story holds a special place in my heart and proves that it’s never too late to find love.

 

What’s The Best Advice You Would Give To Someone Looking For A Partner?

 

The best advice is to be authentic and patient. Don’t rush the process and stay true to yourself. Building a meaningful relationship takes time, so focus on getting to know your potential partner genuinely and allow the connection to develop naturally. Be open-minded, don’t overthink, and trust your matchmaker’s guidance.

 

What Are The Most Common Mistakes People Make When Dating?

 

Common mistakes include setting unrealistic expectations, rushing into relationships, not being fully present or rejecting someone based on a minor issue. It’s essential to approach dating with a happy, open mind and patience. As a Dating Headhunter I know it’s important to make yourself available and be reliable.

 

What Is Your Greatest Success Story?

 

One of my greatest success stories, is a client who married the very first person I introduced her to. They formed an instant connection and are now happily married!

 

What Trends And Changes Do You See Happening Over The Next Few Years In The Dating World?

 

I foresee a continued rise in the use of personalised matchmaking services as people seek more meaningful connections. There will likely be a greater focus on emotional well-being in dating, with more emphasis on compatibility and shared values over superficial traits. And that’s how it should be.

 

What Does A Typical Day Look Like For You As A Matchmaker/ Dating Headhunter ?

 

My day involves talking or meeting with clients, understanding their preferences, writing profiles and finding potential matches through networking. 

 

Do You Believe in Soulmates?

 

I believe in the possibility of soulmates but also think that meaningful connections can be formed with more than one person over a lifetime. It’s about finding someone whose values, goals, and personality align well with yours, creating a deep and lasting bond

 

What Qualities Do You Think Make For A Great Partner?

 

A great partner is kind, trustworthy, supportive, and communicative. Shared values, mutual respect, and the ability to grow together are crucial for a strong and healthy relationship.

 

What Is The Best Way To Approach Someone In Real Life?

 

The best approach is with genuine interest, respect, and confidence. It’s absolutely okay for a woman to approach a man. Taking initiative can be very attractive and show confidence, which appeals to many people. As a Dating Headhunter I know it’s important to start conversations as much as possible in order to be successful. 

 

What Is The Secret Of A Long And Happy Relationship?

 

The secret lies in open communication, mutual respect, and the willingness to grow together. Being supportive, maintaining a sense of humour, and never taking each other for granted are also key to a lasting relationship.